When your child comes home and informs you that he or she wants to play a sport like soccer, it can be great. Certainly, it may mean some extra work on your part, driving the child to and from practice, going to games and all of that, but also it means that your son or daughter is about to embark on a very significant experience that will greatly affect the rest of their life. Team sports can create an excellent foundation for basic concepts that are needed throughout the rest of their life, like working together in a team, organization, strategy and bonding with your teammates.
Encouraging your child to have fun and continue with the sport even when things get a bit rough is part of a parent’s job, so here are some tips on how to keep things fun and interesting for them. The first is to be involved without being overly obsessive. Pay attention to how they are acting; be ready to step back and allow them to attend practices without you if you notice that your presence is distracting them. Chances are you’ll still get your bonding time with them when they want to tell you all about what happened at practice afterwards.
Another thing to think about is how you react to the games or practices that you do watch. You can always be enthusiastic, of course, but if a child sees their parent become angry or disgusted by how their game is going, it could seriously undermine any joy your son or daughter receives from the game.
Probably the most important thing that a parent, coach, or any other adult involved with the game experience can do is to make sure that all corrections or advice given to the child to help their game is done in a positive manner. A parent, coach or other involved adult should not ever be allowed to yell at or demean the children for mistakes that they make during the course of the game, nor should they ever insult or otherwise embarrass them. This is simply not the way to bring about the results they desire, and it does nothing more than damage a child’s self confidence.
Above all, make sure that all the criticism given is done in a positive and constructive way with an attitude of teaching, whenever you or anyone else is helping your child with their techniques. Demonstrate how to kick, trap or head the ball, and tell them why it is important to do so; with positive reinforcement they will learn very quickly.
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